Fifty Shades: Sex Toy Question

Question:

In the book Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James, Chapter 7, page 99, there is a BDSM sex toy mentioned called a flogger. What is the best flogger to get and how do you use one?


Answer:

Floggers come in a variety of forms and can range from a whip to something more like a feather duster in size. They come in a variety of materials from soft (such as fur or silk) to hard (such as leather with accents of metal). They can also be referred to as Whips, Crops, Paddles and Ticklers.

The key to using a flogger is first deciding with your partner through honest communication how you wish to utilize it. Discerning what levels of pleasure and even pain you are open to are key. Also, once using them for the first time, making sure to establish ground rules, like the ones outlined in the Fifty Shades book series is important.

You can use them to softly tease your lover by softly running them along their skin. Using this with a sexy blindfold will enhance the sensation of this. You can also use them to do medium to hard whipping and spanking. This will require more communication and even a safety word. Always start off softly and then progressively get harder making sure to check in with your partner on how it feels and if they are enjoying the sensations. It is best not to use them so hard that you would in any way break the skin or leave a permanent mark.

One of the most popular selling floggers that we sell is the Sensua by LELO, which is made with a soft suede and can be used for both soft and hard stimulation. They come in a variety of colors and are well made, with excellent customer reviews.


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