One of the best ways to make it easier to orgasm is finding positions that will help your partner locate your g-spot. The first thing you need to do is find yours. The g-spot is easier to find once you are already aroused and it has become engorged with fluid when you are sexually excited. It is typically about 1.5 – 3 inches inside the vagina on the top.
Using yours or your partner’s finger in a come hither motion to put pressure on it is a great way to find it. You should be able to feel increased pleasure from the stimulation and it may feel more firm and sometimes rounded compared to the vaginal wall that surrounds it.
Because all women and men are different shapes and sizes, you may have to experiment with your partner to find the best position for them to stimulate your g-spot during sex. Often times, having your pelvis tilted upward can help make the difference in receiving optimal g-spot stimulation. Using a pillow under your hips if you are lying on your back can be helpful as well as a variety of positions such as on top or on your knees. There are even sex position pillows that help you get into the best positions.
Also, finding ways to stimulated the clitoris by having your pelvic bone provide stimulation. Any position that allows her legs to be wide open, exposing her clitoris and allow his pelvic bone to grind or thrust against it with constant motion will certainly increase the chances of a orgasm without sex toys.
One thing to consider is that there are now new couples sex toys that can be worn during sex to provide clitoral stimulation while you have sexual intercourse. Because many women find it much easier to orgasm with clitoral stimulation, many women are reporting that they are truly beneficial to their sex lives.
Also, do not forget that lubricant, even when she is aroused can help make clitoral stimulation feel even better. You will want to use a water based lubricant that is glycerin and Paraben free like these-
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